Desperation is the last thing you want to portray when trying to win your ex back. I have a lot of experience in this field, and trust me, men can smell it a mile off and it is not attractive to them. It sends out the wrong signals to them, and can have an adverse effect. If you go crawling back to them begging them to take you back, they will have total control of the situation, and this is very dangerous.
When thinking about how to get my ex boyfriend back, I was very careful not to give off the wrong signals. Although most men may seem emotionally insensitive sometimes, they do have the ability to pick up on your state of mind and play on it to their advantage. I knew that my ex would immediately have the upper hand if he detected that I was desperate to have him back (which I was) and that I would accept practically anything I could get from him, even if this was just scraps of affection and the odd one night stand.
It sounds dreadful I know, but I was so confused at the time that I would have taken him back in a heartbeat, no matter what he had been up to. Luckily for me, my sister was wise to this, and ensured that I did not give him any such signals. We worked out how to get my ex back, by making him think that I was moving on and didn’t need him.
It worked well, and he soon came crawling back to me to reignite our relationship when he thought I might be dating someone else. The thought of this brought him round to his senses! Of course I wasn’t, because I wanted him back more than anything. So thanks to my sister’s advice I was able to get my ex back.
